One thing I have been working on is to limit the Energy Vampires in my life. You know, the ones that suck the spark out of you? Who can put a negative spin on everything? Who NEVER want to see the bright side? I get it, everyone has those days where they just want to complain and mope. I have those days too. It is not easy to be a perpetually positive person.
But it is not easy being around Energy Vampires either. I seem very susceptible to this phenomenon and it really drags my energy down, making me not want to do things and just generally feeling really negative.
So. My solution?
- Limit the time spent with Energy Vampires.
- Don't let other peoples energy take over or overly influence my own.
- Drink more water (ok, and gin)
- Try to get some more steps in. I have been feeling so good since I started my Fitbit routine!
- Laugh, and find people who laugh at the same things.
- Set boundaries.
Easier said than done. But today is as good a day as any.
It is not easy to be a perpetually positive person, nor is it easy to SAY perpetually positive person :)
ReplyDeleteI'm with you on so much of this. Here's to controlling what we can control, and surrounding ourselves with people who drink gin and gingers!